GenFriends Genealogy Chat Show-Relative Race Season 16, Day 10: Team Reunion!

The panel, Melissa Barker, Laura Hedgcock, Shelley Murphy, Mary Kircher Roddy, and I welcome members of Season 16's teams to share their thoughts and experiences not only on Day 10 but also of the journey to get there.

Watch as they share updates, inside stories, and things they wish hadn't been edited out!

Thanks so much, Relative Race, for another fantastic season, and to all 8 team members for sharing your stories. Changing lives one door-knock at a time!

 Links in this episode:

Relative Race

https://www.byutv.org/relative-race

Contact the panelists:

Melissa Barker -A Genealogist in the Archives

http://agenealogistinthearchives.blogspot.com/

Bernice Bennett-BerniceBennett.com

http://www.BerniceAlexanderBennett.com

Jenny Hawran-Like Herding Cats Genealogy

https://like-herding-cats.com/

Laura Hedgecock-Treasure Chest of Memories

https://treasurechestofmemories.com/

Mary Kircher Roddy-MKR Genealogy

https://www.mkrgenealogy.com/

https://appliedgen.institute/

Shelley Murphey-Family Tree Girl

https://familytreegirl.com/

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Celebration Sunday-Genealogy Happy Dance!: My Course is Open for Registration!

 You know the dance. You know you've done it. The one every researcher does after finding something new. The one where you want to jump up and down and shout to everyone that you found the document, contacted a cousin with the family Bible, made a DNA connection, or found a new branch to your tree. The one that is met with glazed stares and eye rolls.

                                                          Celebration Sunday is a place to share your discoveries. 

This weekly series enables everyone to tell about their Genealogy Happy Dance moment. 

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My Happy Dance Moment for the week:

Registration has begun for my 2026 Course for the Institute of Genealogy and Historical Research. It was a great first day of people signing up!

Researching Your South Carolina Roots: Finding Family in the Palmetto State will help those with ancestors who settled in or passed through SC for a time on their way to somewhere else learn tips and strategies to find available records and documents, especially in the hard-to-reach upcountry.

I am thrilled to be able to teach this course with several experts in research in SC. 

Want to join us starting August 11? Click here for course information and to register.  I'd love to see you in the course!

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GenFriends Genealogy Chat Show: Unpacking Relative Race Season 16 Day 9 with Callie and Thaddeus!

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The panel, Melissa Barker, Jenny Hawran, Laura Hedgecock, Mary Kircher Roddy, and I  welcome Season 11 winner Thaddeus and Season 12 winner Callie to help us unpack Relative Race Season 16 Day 9.

So much emotion on this last day of finding family. 

From the travails of the drive, getting soaked by a meteor shower, quotes from Candis, and meeting long-sought family and a newly named star, this was a fantastic Day 9. We'd also love to give a shout-out to Shauna, Jake, Danitra, and Andrea for the love and support shown throughout your loved one's journey. 

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Thank you to Dan and the entire Relative Race team for another season of uniting families. No one does it like you!

Why do YOU love this show?

We'd love to hear from you!

Poem Callie shared:

Legacy of an Adopted Child

Once there were two women

Who never knew each other.

One you do not remember,

The other one you call mother.

Two different lives

Shaped to make yours one.

One became your guiding star,

The other became your sun.

The first gave you life

And the second taught you to live it.

The first gave you a need for love

And the second was there to give it.

One gave you a nationality,

The other gave you a name.

One gave you a seed of talent,

The other gave you an aim.

One gave you emotions,

The other calmed your fears.

One saw your first sweet smile,

The other dried your tears.

One gave you up -

It was all that she could do.

The other prayed for a child

And God led her straight to you.

And now you ask me

Through your tears,

The age-old question

Through the years:

Heredity or environment

Which are you the product of?

Neither, my darling - neither,

Just two different kinds of love.

- Author Unknown

 Links in this episode:

Relative Race

https://www.byutv.org/relative-race

Contact the panelists:

Melissa Barker -A Genealogist in the Archives

http://agenealogistinthearchives.blogspot.com/

Bernice Bennett-BerniceBennett.com

http://www.BerniceAlexanderBennett.com

Jenny Hawran-Like Herding Cats Genealogy

https://like-herding-cats.com/

Laura Hedgecock-Treasure Chest of Memories

https://treasurechestofmemories.com/

Mary Kircher Roddy-MKR Genealogy

https://www.mkrgenealogy.com/

https://appliedgen.institute/

Shelley Murphey-Family Tree Girl

https://familytreegirl.com/

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This Week On My Family History Calendar-Remembering Two Paternal Ancestors

 

Nov. 18~ 
  My paternal 3rd great-grandfather, William A. Martin (1813-1887), died in Statesville, Iredell County, North Carolina, 138 years ago. He is buried in Bethesda Presbyterian Cemetery in Statesville.

William A. Martin

Headstone

Bethesda Presbyterian Church Cemetery

Statesville, Iredell, North Carolina

photo credit: Joy Steele. Used with permission

Nov. 22~

    My paternal grandfather, Benjamin Allen Hudson (1918-1976), was born 107 years ago in Clarendon County, South Carolina. He was the only child of John McSwain Hudson (1880-1961) and Louvinia Blanche Thames (1886-1918). 

Benjamin Allen Hudson
About 1920
Clarendon County, South Carolina
©Cheri Hudson Passey

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Celebration Sunday-Genealogy Happy Dance!-2025 NGSQ Study Group Completion Certificate

 

You know the dance. You know you've done it. The one every researcher does after finding something new. The one where you want to jump up and down and shout to everyone that you found the document, contacted a cousin with the family Bible, made a DNA connection, or found a new branch to your tree. The one that is met with glazed stares and eye rolls.

                                                          Celebration Sunday is a place to share your discoveries. 

This weekly series enables everyone to tell about their Genealogy Happy Dance moment. 

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My Happy Dance Moment for the week:

Completing another year!

For the last several years, I have participated in an NGSQ Study group.

We have just completed our 2025 meetings, during which we were assigned an article from the National Genealogical Society Quarterly to read and study, to develop our writing and research skills. This group of genealogists has helped me learn a great deal over the years.

Thank you to Cyndi Ingle for facilitating this discussion group!

If you are interested in joining one of the study groups for 2026 with either Cyndi or Cari Taplin, click here for the details.

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GenFriends Genealogy Chat Show: Relative Race Season 16 Day 8- Never Give Up! Never Surrender!

The panel, consisting of Melissa Barker, Jenny Hawran, Laura Hedgecock, Mary Kircher Roddy, and me, discusses the joy that is felt by the teams and also by those who watch this day.

And to quote Jake, who was quoting someone else: Never give up! Never surrender!

The challenge was particularly fun, but it required a lot of strategy to keep those boxes balanced. We could see this being done at a family reunion.

Everyone but Team Black had a bit of trouble finding their relatives' house since the roads didn't cooperate, but once they were there, the reunions were full of love and acceptance. More questions were answered, and those puzzle pieces keep fitting into place.

How sweet were the letters from Team Red's children? Loved that.

Watch and let us hear your thoughts!

With Team Black coming in first place on this day and receiving the Strike the Strike benefit, the teams, except for Team Red, are tied at 2 strikes apiece. 

What are your thoughts about how they are going to choose the teams for the elimination round on Day 10?

We'd love to hear from you!

 Links in this episode:

Relative Race

https://www.byutv.org/relative-race

Contact the panelists:

Melissa Barker -A Genealogist in the Archives

http://agenealogistinthearchives.blogspot.com/

Bernice Bennett-BerniceBennett.com

http://www.BerniceAlexanderBennett.com

Jenny Hawran-Like Herding Cats Genealogy

https://like-herding-cats.com/

Laura Hedgecock-Treasure Chest of Memories

https://treasurechestofmemories.com/

Mary Kircher Roddy-MKR Genealogy

https://www.mkrgenealogy.com/

https://appliedgen.institute/

Shelley Murphey-Family Tree Girl

https://familytreegirl.com/

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Celebration Sunday-Genealogy Happy Dance!-Catching Up on a Fun October

 

You know the dance. You know you've done it. The one every researcher does after finding something new. The one where you want to jump up and down and shout to everyone that you found the document, contacted a cousin with the family Bible, made a DNA connection, or found a new branch to your tree. The one that is met with glazed stares and eye rolls.

                                                          Celebration Sunday is a place to share your discoveries. 

This weekly series enables everyone to tell about their Genealogy Happy Dance moment. 

Share by scrolling 

down and add your story to the comments section, or you may also link to a blog post about what had you dancing this week.

My Happy Dance Moment for the week:

The month of October was packed with genealogy conferences!

Today I am catching up with the last of the three I was privileged to speak for and attend.

The North Carolina Genealogical Society Fall Conference was packed with great speakers and friends. I love seeing those I have met over the years and meeting new ones.

I was also honored to meet legendary genealogist Helen Leary, the author of " North Carolina Genealogy," The big red book that teaches not only how to research in NC but also teaches methodologies for researching everywhere. It's a must on anyone's bookshelf!

What a fabulous way to wrap up a month of in-person conferences.

It was exhausting, but so worth it!

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GenFriends Genealogy Chat Show: Relative Race Season 16 Day 7: Changing Lives!

 

Cheri and the panel, Melissa Barker, Shelley Murphy, and Mary Kircher Roddy, get together to continue their coverage of Relative Race Season 16.

In this episode, they discuss the return of the rubber chicken, the crazy challenge, and the emotional family reunions.

And Jake? We want to give you a hug and tell you that we think you are one of the best big brothers we have ever seen. The outcome of the challenge was not your fault.

So many wonderful reunions on Day 7!

Which was your favorite?

We'd love to hear from you!

Links in this episode:

Relative Race

https://www.byutv.org/relative-race

Tetris Game

https://sameday.costco.com/store/costco/products/69271936-tetris-xl-tumble-game  

Contact the panelists:

Melissa Barker -A Genealogist in the Archives

http://agenealogistinthearchives.blogspot.com/

Bernice Bennett-BerniceBennett.com

http://www.BerniceAlexanderBennett.com

Jenny Hawran-Like Herding Cats Genealogy

https://like-herding-cats.com/

Laura Hedgecock-Treasure Chest of Memories

https://treasurechestofmemories.com/

Mary Kircher Roddy-MKR Genealogy

https://www.mkrgenealogy.com/

https://appliedgen.institute/

Shelley Murphey-Family Tree Girl

https://familytreegirl.com/

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GenFriends Genealogy Chat Show: Unpacking Day 6 of Relative Race Season 16 with Kayli!

 

Cheri and the panel, Jenny Hawran, Laura Hedgecock, Mary Kircher, and Roddy, are thrilled to welcome Kayli, the Team Red winner of season 15, to help us unpack Day 6 of season 16!

Watch as we get an update on Kayli, Dan, and the family they met on the race and the happenings of the day.

Thanks to Kayli for letting us know where to purchase a game like the one used in the challenge, and to Mary for finding the link!

What was your favorite part of Day 6?

We'd love to hear from you!

Links in this episode:

Relative Race

https://www.byutv.org/relative-race

Tetris Game

https://sameday.costco.com/store/costco/products/69271936-tetris-xl-tumble-game  

Contact the panelists:

Melissa Barker -A Genealogist in the Archives

http://agenealogistinthearchives.blogspot.com/

Bernice Bennett-BerniceBennett.com

http://www.BerniceAlexanderBennett.com

Jenny Hawran-Like Herding Cats Genealogy

https://like-herding-cats.com/

Laura Hedgecock-Treasure Chest of Memories

https://treasurechestofmemories.com/

Mary Kircher Roddy-MKR Genealogy

https://www.mkrgenealogy.com/

https://appliedgen.institute/

Shelley Murphey-Family Tree Girl

https://familytreegirl.com/

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GenFriends Genealogy Chat Show: Relative Race Season 16 -Day 5 with Callie!

 

Cheri and the panel, Melissa Barker, Jenny Hawran, and Laura Hedgecock, welcome Callie from Season 12. 

It's always so much fun to have Callie on to share her experiences with the race and get her thoughts on the new season.

Watch as we get together to laugh at the challenge, cry as the teams discover who was waiting for them, and talk about the results on the halfway mark of the race.

Who do you think is waiting on Day 6?

We'd love to hear from you.

 Links in this episode:

https://www.byutv.org/relative-race

Contact the panelists:

Melissa Barker -A Genealogist in the Archives

http://agenealogistinthearchives.blogspot.com/

Bernice Bennett-BerniceBennett.com

http://www.BerniceAlexanderBennett.com

Jenny Hawran-Like Herding Cats Genealogy

https://like-herding-cats.com/

Laura Hedgecock-Treasure Chest of Memories

https://treasurechestofmemories.com/

Mary Kircher Roddy-MKR Genealogy

https://www.mkrgenealogy.com/

https://appliedgen.institute/

Shelley Murphey-Family Tree Girl

https://familytreegirl.com/

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Sunday Celebration-Genealogy Happy Dance! Another Weekend in Person!

You know the dance. You know you've done it. The one every researcher does after finding something new. The one where you want to jump up and down and shout to everyone that you found the document, contacted a cousin with the family Bible, made a DNA connection, or found a new branch to your tree. The one that is met with glazed stares and eye rolls.

                                                          Celebration Sunday is a place to share your discoveries. 

This weekly series enables everyone to tell about their Genealogy Happy Dance moment. 

Share by scrolling 

down and add your story to the comments section, or you may also link to a blog post about what had you dancing this week.

My Happy Dance Moment for the week:

Another in-person genealogy conference! The last couple of days, I have been speaking at and attending the York County Library Genealogy and Family History Expo in Fort Mill, SC. This is a fantastic educational event sponsored by the York County Library. 

I didn't take enough photos to do it, just to show the significant attendance numbers. So much fun meeting new people and connecting with friends.

Congratulations to John Scardon for a well-run conference that gets even better every year!

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